Sunday, July 11, 2010

Our Sunshine Girl

Originally posted on Friday, June 22, 2007

I thought I would tell y’all the story of My Sunshine Girl, a.k.a., Lupe. Our bossy little girl that found us, and who has been ruling the roost ever since, no pun intended.

Jack was out working in the field a couple of years ago when this object came fluttering towards his face. Catching him off guard and not knowing what was coming his way, he instinctively blocked his face with his hands. Half a second later, this thing fluttered back around and landed right on his index finger. Jack looked at IT - IT looked at him and said, “chirrup”.

I was in the barn talking to Paige on the phone. Okay ya’ll, not much can pry me from the phone. Especially when it’s Paige on the phone, but when Jack walked into the barn with a bird on his finger, I got off the phone. Click.

Jack sat the bird down on the desk and she started pecking at the newspaper. She was looking for food. I had some wild birdseed at the house, so we headed back to the house, our new little friend in tow on Jack’s finger, to get her some food. Okay y’all, you have to envision this. Our barn is not that close to the house. Probably about 250 to 300 yards. We’re walking with this bird on Jack’s finger and she just sits there. She sits on his finger the entire walk just looking around like she’s checking the place out. She never even attempts to fly – she never even flapped her wings. She just sat there.

We get her in the house, I put some birdseed in a little bowl and she starts eating like there’s no tomorrow. So much for “eating like a bird”. After literally inhaling her food for about 30 or 45 seconds, she then looked up at us and started chirping a mile a minute. She had something to say and she wanted to be heard. I’m sure she wanted us to know what she had just endured.

It probably was something like this:“I just can’t tell you how exhausted I am and what this little journey entailed. I had to dodge big birds, cats, high winds, and the elements to get here. Put me to bed NOW. I’m tired and in no mood to chat. Where’s my new cage? It better be nice and roomy. I’m also noticing you have some cats around here. Be sure you get me in a safe place, but DON’T shut the door on my cage, I can’t stand that!"

Right then and there I told Jack that her name is Lupe. I don’t know why, that’s just what popped in my head. And right then and there, Lupe copped her little attitude and it hasn’t changed in 2 years. She rules our world. This is her house, we’re just visiting.


Lupe on Debi's shoulder in 2005

She tells us what’s on her mind all the time. And the DOOR. DON’T CLOSE THE DOOR on her cage. She’s fine staying in her a cage, she spends most of her time inside her cage or on top of it, but DON’T close the door. She WILL let you know how she feels about a closed door. Trust me. Lupe’s door stays open.

(Updated sidenote, 7/11/10: A while after this post, Lupe injured her wing and was no longer able to fly. After that injury she no longer minded her cage door being closed, she knew her limitations. Although unable to fly, she spent plenty of time with us outside of her cage. )


Lupe, Jack, and Abe 2010

Okay y’all. Now the strange stuff about me is going to come out. You may choose to never read another post of mine the rest of your life when I say this. You may think I’m just too weird and need some professional help, but – okay, I’m going to say it.

I think Lupe is my great grandmother. If she’s not my Granny, she was sent here by Granny. There’s a definite Granny connection. Again, don’t ask me how I know. I just know.

When I was a little girl my Granny would always tell me things that I found so amazing. Of course, when your 5 and 6 years old, many things told to you seem amazing, but Granny had some REALLY amazing stories.She would tell me things like, “I heard you got a new little dress yesterday with yellow daisies on it.” Since I was such a bright, almost genius-like child (lol), I would ask her how she knew about such things. Her response was always, “A little bird told me.”

In the summers at her house, on a daily basis she would tell me little factoids about myself – I was always amazed at her knowledge, and she would always tell me that she knew these things because a little bird told her. So of course, I would spend the rest of the day in the yard looking around everywhere for this little magical bird that could talk. I wore myself out looking for this bird.At night when it was dark and I could no longer search for the bird outside, I would ask Granny more questions about her bird. She would describe the bird in great detail and all the little things this bird would tell her. She told me that this bird would come to her bedroom window every morning to tell her things about me. She said that this bird was always watching me, and that this was how she kept up with me. I wanted to find this bird more than I wanted to ride in Santa’s sleigh.

Lupe IS this little bird y'all. She even looks just like the bird Granny always described. I would beg Granny to catch the bird and put her in a cage in the house so I could see her, but, Granny would tell me that this little bird was a special bird, far too special to be locked in a cage.Okay, call me half cracked, that’s okay - it could be true. But, I’m just here to tell you that wonderful things happen at Hummingbird Farms, including birds landing on your finger. Jack always says, “It’s magic out here”. It is. And I still have other magical stories to tell you…


We will miss you, Lupe. Thank you for the joy you brought to our home.

7 comments:

Painted Groove Girl said...

Can't even bring myself to tell my girls about Lupe. They will be heartbroken.

You never know when little people are listening to every word you say, but I will always smile when I remember Caroline telling someone "there is a bird doctor in San Antonio and he knows EVERYTHING about birds!!! And he fixed Lupe's wing ..." Her little hands were just a waving with emphasis ... Of course the story went on and on ...

Thank you Deb and Jack for letting my girls in on some of the magic at Hummingbird Farms.

Sir Nottaguy-Imadad said...

I'm saddened to hear of your loss. I remember you letting Lupe choose the names of the winners of a give away on your blog (which my wife was one of).

My grandmother had a little yellow,plastic bird that whenever I was sad, she would bring out,set on my nose and tell me that the bird would poop on my bottom lip if I didn't bring it in. It always made me smile. Grandmothers & birds must go together.

Nancy Medina said...

My heart goes out to you in losing your little Lupe, what a wonderful gift you were given to have your Granny's love brought back to you so beautifully. Thank you for sharing! This reminds me so much of my own grandmother, who was also my best friend. Sending comforting thoughts your way.

Greyeyes said...

I always say that life is in the details, so you need to pay attention. I know you understand what i mean. What a wonderful hommage to both ladies. Thanks for sharing that little piece of your world.

Vickie said...

What a comfort to you that Lupe must have been. I'm sorry to hear of her passing but I'm glad that she graced your life for a time. I was very close to my grandmother, too, so I do understand...

Hugs, Vickie

Theresa said...

Oh, Deb, I'm so sorry about Lupe! I'm glad you have some great memories of both her and your grandmother, though.

Kathy Cox-Gutierrez said...

Deb - Jack told us about Lupe, but didn'e tell us about the "Granny" connection. That is so cool! and of COURSE I don't hink you are nuts!!!!! Thank you for sharing and keeping us all in the Loop about your magical home. Love Kathy, Katie and Amy